they are not the only fish in the sea

Okay...let's touch a lil bit on break ups...
give yourself closure:
So you have broken up and you could not be more heart broken...you have never felt such pain. All you want to do is crawl up in bed, cry and never be seen again! You keep calling them to ask how they could do such a thing to you and you say you just want to understand so that you can have closure. Let me tell you now...no one else but YOU...only YOU can give yourself closure. The other partner cannot do that. There is nothing that they will say that will make total sense and give you the peace you searching for. Learn to give yourself closure. It is painful because you cannot believe that this very person who is being so mean and so cold towards you is the very person who not so long ago said had the utmost respect for you. The sudden switch of emotions is very difficult to handle. Don’t continuously hurt yourself by reaching out to them hoping they will say something different. Let it go as hurtful as it is just let it go and focus on getting better.

emotional roller coaster:
At times you get those that break up with you and then keep coming back, chatting you up as if they want to work things out ...lol- one minute they say they are confused the next they are into you, the next they are not...the hot and cold attitude...can they make up their minds please! jislaaik! Don’t allow yourself to go through such an emotional roller coaster. If someone wants to be with you they don’t beat about the bush. If you are not getting clarity...dust that off.

learn to let go:
Letting go is necessary...don’t hold on and try and convince someone that you are amazing...If they cannot see that for themselves then you don’t really want them anyway. Sometimes we don’t see it but God will be saving us from a lot of hurt that could have come along had we continued dating this person. I mean think about it, deep down inside you had those doubts about them and wondered if they would change certain habits or traits that you did not see yourself compromising on. This could very well be your get out of jail free card and you got to take this opportunity to self search and go over those aspects that didn’t work for you in that just ended relationship and see how you can improve yourself and become stronger.

they are not the only fish in the sea:
haha forget the cartoon coz seriously they are not the only fish in the sea...lol...just because one person did not treat you as they should have does not mean that everybody else is like that. Always be open to meeting new people, go out, dress fabulously, you won’t meet anyone different if all you do is sit at home and brood over bygones.

Be Blessed

with love...tafie